对于和父母关系十分亲密的“妈宝男”和“爸宝女”,人们有很多争议。
有人嘲笑他们,认为他们不够独立,或者父母对他们过于溺爱。
但一项最新研究显示,“妈宝男”和“爸宝女”心理更健康,“妈宝男”在学校的人缘不错,“爸宝女”的自尊和自信程度也都较高。
美国婚姻基金会开展的这项研究得出结论称,与妈妈关系亲密的男孩和与爸爸关系亲密的女孩更适应青春期。
研究发现,被认为与妈妈非常亲密的14岁男孩出现心理健康问题的几率会降低41%。
与父亲关系亲密的女孩出现情绪问题或与同龄人交流问题的几率要低44%。
婚姻基金会的研究主管哈里•本森说:“我们的分析再次显示,家庭破裂对青少年心理健康影响最大。
但我们真正有趣的新发现是,男孩受妈妈影响大,女孩受爸爸影响大。
”因为男孩和女孩的情感需求和期望不同,所以和妈妈关系亲密的男孩以及和爸爸关系亲密的女孩心理更健康。
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| Chinese | Pinyin | English |
|---|---|---|
| 对于 | duì yú | regarding; as far as (sth) is concerned; with regard to |
| 和 | hé | and; together with |
| 父母 | fù mǔ | father and mother; parents |
| 关系 | guān xì | relation / relationship / guanxi |
| 十分 | shí fēn | very / completely / utterly / extremely / absolutely / hundred percent |
| 亲密 | qīn mì | intimate / close |
| 的 | de | possessive particle (of; 's) / modifying particle (used after an attribute to modify a noun or to form a nominal expression) |
| 妈宝男 | mā bǎo nán | a mama’s boy; a man overly dependent on his mother |
| 爸宝女 | bà bǎo nǚ | a girl who is very dependent on and closely attached to her father; daddy’s girl |
| 人们 | rén men | people |
| 有 | yǒu | to have; there is |
| 很多 | hěn duō | many; a lot of |
| 争议 | zhēng yì | controversy / dispute |
| 有人 | yǒu rén | someone / people / anyone |
| 嘲笑 | cháo xiào | to jeer at / to deride / to ridicule |
| 他们 | tā men | they; them |
| 认为 | rèn wéi | to believe; to think; to consider; to feel |
| 不 | bù | no; not so |
| 够 | gòu | enough (sufficient) / enough (too much) |
| 独立 | dú lì | independent |
| 或者 | huò zhě | possibly; maybe; perhaps |
| 对 | duì | towards; at; for / concerning; regarding |
| 过于 | guò yú | excessively; too |
| 溺爱 | nì ài | to spoil / to pamper / to dote on |
| 但 | dàn | but; yet; however; still |
| 一 | yī | one / single / a (article) |
| 项 | xiàng | classifier for principles, items, clauses, tasks, research projects etc |
| 最 | zuì | (before an adjective or verb) to the highest degree; (the) most ...; -est |
| 新 | xīn | new; newly |
| 研究 | yán jiū | research / a study |
| 显示 | xiǎn shì | to show / to illustrate / to display / to demonstrate |
| 心理 | xīn lǐ | psychology; mentality |
| 更 | gèng | more / even more / further / still / still more |
| 健康 | jiàn kāng | healthy |
| 在 | zài | (of sb or sth) to be (located) at |
| 学校 | xué xiào | school |
| 人缘 | rén yuán | relations with other people |
| 错 | cuò | wrong / bad / interlocking / complex |
| 自尊 | zì zūn | self-respect / self-esteem / ego / pride |
| 自信 | zì xìn | self-confidence |
| 程度 | chéng dù | degree; level; extent |
| 也 | yě | also; too; as well; (not ...) either |
| 都 | dōu | all; both; entirely |
| 较 | jiào | (before an adjective) relatively; comparatively; rather |
| 高 | gāo | high / tall / above average / loud |
| 美国 | Měi guó | United States; USA; US |
| 婚姻 | hūn yīn | marriage; matrimony |
| 基金会 | jī jīn huì | foundation (institution supported by an endowment) |
| 开展 | kāi zhǎn | to launch / to develop / to unfold / (of an exhibition etc) to open |
| 这 | zhè | this; these |
| 得出 | dé chū | to obtain (a result); to arrive at (a conclusion) |
| 结论 | jié lùn | conclusion / verdict |
| 称 | chēng | to state |
| 与 | yǔ | (formal) with; from (marking the other participant in an interaction, comparison, or contrast) |
| 妈妈 | mā ma | mama / mommy / mother |
| 男孩 | nán hái | boy |
| 爸爸 | bà ba | (coll.) father; dad |
| 女孩 | nǚ hái | girl; lass |
| 适应 | shì yìng | to adapt / to fit / to suit |
| 青春期 | qīng chūn qī | puberty / adolescence |
| 发现 | fā xiàn | to notice; to become aware of / to discover; to find; to detect |
| 被 | bèi | used to indicate passive voice (placed before the doer of the action like "by" in English passive-voice sentences, or, if the doer is not mentioned, before the verb) / (sarcastic or jocular) used to indicate that the following word should be regarded as being in air quotes |
| 非常 | fēi cháng | very; really |
| 岁 | suì | classifier for years (of age) |
| 出现 | chū xiàn | to appear / to arise / to emerge / to show up |
| 问题 | wèn tí | question / problem / issue / topic |
| 几率 | jī lǜ | probability / odds |
| 会 | huì | to be likely to; to be sure to |
| 降低 | jiàng dī | to reduce; to lower; to bring down |
| 父亲 | fù qīn | father |
| 情绪 | qíng xù | mood / state of mind / moodiness |
| 或 | huò | or |
| 同龄人 | tóng líng rén | peer / one's contemporary / person of the same age |
| 交流 | jiāo liú | communication / interaction / to have social contact (with sb) |
| 要 | yào | will; shall; about to / need to; should / if |
| 低 | dī | low |
| 主管 | zhǔ guǎn | person in charge / manager |
| 哈里•本森 | Hā lǐ Běn sēn | a personal name, Harry Benson |
| 说 | shuō | to speak; to talk; to say |
| 我们 | wǒ men | we; us; ourselves; our |
| 分析 | fēn xī | analysis |
| 再 | zài | again; once more; re- |
| 次 | cì | classifier for enumerated events: time |
| 家庭 | jiā tíng | family; household |
| 破裂 | pò liè | to burst; to rupture / (of a relationship etc) to break down |
| 青少年 | qīng shào nián | adolescent / youth / teenager |
| 影响 | yǐng xiǎng | influence / effect |
| 大 | dà | big; large; great / older (than another person) / eldest |
| 真正 | zhēn zhèng | really; indeed |
| 有趣 | yǒu qù | interesting; fascinating; amusing |
| 是 | shì | to be (followed by substantives only) |
| 受 | shòu | subjected to / (passive marker) |
| 因为 | yīn wèi | because; owing to; on account of |
| 情感 | qíng gǎn | feeling / emotion |
| 需求 | xū qiú | requirement / (economics) demand |
| 期望 | qī wàng | expectation / hope |
| 不同 | bù tóng | different / distinct / not the same / not alike |
| 所以 | suǒ yǐ | therefore / as a result / so |
| 以及 | yǐ jí | and; as well as |