浙江有一对刚结婚三个月的年轻夫妻因为孩子的姓名问题离婚了。
原来，他们在恋爱时曾经讨论过，如果以后孩子出生，女方想让孩子跟妈妈姓，而不是传统的跟爸爸姓。
但在孩子出生以后，男方的父母却不愿意第一个孩子就跟妈妈姓，而女方家也非常坚持。
法律规定孩子可以跟爸爸姓，也可以跟妈妈姓，由父母自己自由决定。
但他们的孩子跟谁姓还是没有决定，而夫妻俩的矛盾开始越来越多，关系也越来越差，最后只能离婚了。
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| Chinese | Pinyin | English |
|---|---|---|
| 浙江 | Zhè jiāng | Zhejiang Province in eastern China. |
| 有 | yǒu | to have; there is |
| 一 | yī | one / single / a (article) |
| 对 | duì | classifier: couple; pair |
| 刚 | gāng | just / barely / exactly |
| 结婚 | jié hūn | to marry; to get married |
| 三 | sān | three / 3 |
| 个 | gè | classifier for people or objects in general |
| 月 | yuè | month / monthly |
| 的 | de | possessive particle (of; 's) / modifying particle (used after an attribute to modify a noun or to form a nominal expression) |
| 年轻 | nián qīng | young |
| 夫妻 | fū qī | husband and wife; married couple |
| 因为 | yīn wèi | because; owing to; on account of |
| 孩子 | hái zi | child |
| 姓名 | xìng míng | surname and given name; full name |
| 问题 | wèn tí | question / problem / issue / topic |
| 离婚 | lí hūn | to divorce |
| 了 | le | (completed action marker) / (modal particle indicating change of state, situation now) |
| 原来 | yuán lái | so, actually, as it turns out |
| 他们 | tā men | they; them |
| 在 | zài | (of sb or sth) to be (located) at |
| 恋爱 | liàn ài | in love |
| 时 | shí | when |
| 曾经 | céng jīng | once / already / former / previously / ever / (past tense marker used before verb or clause) |
| 讨论 | tǎo lùn | to discuss; to talk over |
| 过 | guo | (experienced action marker) |
| 如果 | rú guǒ | if; in case; in the event that |
| 以后 | yǐ hòu | after / later / afterwards / following / later on / in the future |
| 出生 | chū shēng | to be born |
| 女方 | nǚ fāng | the bride's side (of a wedding) |
| 想 | xiǎng | to desire; to want (to) |
| 让 | ràng | to permit / to let sb do sth / to have sb do sth / to make sb (feel sad etc) |
| 跟 | gēn | to follow closely / to go with / (of a woman) to marry sb |
| 妈妈 | mā ma | mama / mommy / mother |
| 姓 | xìng | to be surnamed ... |
| 而 | ér | but (not) / yet (not) / (indicates contrast) |
| 不是 | bù shì | is not |
| 传统 | chuán tǒng | traditional / conventional |
| 爸爸 | bà ba | (coll.) father; dad |
| 但 | dàn | but; yet; however; still |
| 男方 | nán fāng | (of a marriage) the bridegroom's side; the husband's side |
| 父母 | fù mǔ | father and mother; parents |
| 却 | què | but / yet / however / while / nevertheless / even though |
| 不 | bù | no; not so |
| 愿意 | yuàn yì | to wish / to want / ready / willing (to do sth) |
| 第 | dì | (prefix indicating ordinal number) |
| 就 | jiù | merely; nothing else but; simply; just; precisely; exactly |
| 家 | jiā | home / family / (polite) my (sister, uncle etc) |
| 也 | yě | also; too; as well; (not ...) either |
| 非常 | fēi cháng | very; really |
| 坚持 | jiān chí | to persevere with / to persist in / to insist on |
| 法律 | fǎ lǜ | law |
| 规定 | guī dìng | to stipulate; to specify; to prescribe; to fix (a price); to set (a quota) |
| 可以 | kě yǐ | can / may / possible / able to |
| 由 | yóu | from / because of; due to / by; via; through / (before a noun and a verb) it is for ... to ... |
| 自己 | zì jǐ | oneself; (attributive) one's own |
| 自由 | zì yóu | free; unrestricted |
| 决定 | jué dìng | to decide; to determine; to make up one's mind |
| 谁 | shéi | who |
| 还 | hái | still, still in progress, yet |
| 是 | shì | indeed (used for emphasis) |
| 没有 | méi yǒu | haven't / hasn't |
| 俩 | liǎ | two / both / some |
| 矛盾 | máo dùn | contradiction / conflicting views |
| 开始 | kāi shǐ | to begin / to start |
| 越来越 | yuè lái yuè | more and more |
| 多 | duō | many; much; more; a lot of |
| 关系 | guān xì | relation / relationship / guanxi |
| 差 | chà | different / wrong; mistaken / not up to standard; inferior |
| 最后 | zuì hòu | finally; in the end |
| 只 | zhǐ | only; merely; just |
| 能 | néng | can / to be able to / might possibly |