我们都不喜欢坏品质,但是有三种坏品质可能对你有帮助。
第一,自私我们都认为自私是贪婪、无情的,不是好的品质。
但是事实上,通过优先关注自己的事不仅会让你变得更强大,而且还可以更好地帮助别人。
自私和帮助别人也并不矛盾。
第二,懒惰对一些无关紧要的事懒惰会为你节省很多时间,减少不必要的压力。
做完最多的事并非是最好的选择,做完最重要的事才是最佳选择。
它能最大限度地提升你的生活。
要生活得既聪明又平衡,尽量利用懒惰的优势,不要做不必要的巨大努力。
第三,冷酷无情多一点恰当的冷酷对我非常有帮助。
有些时候,你必须做出一些对你来说更困难的决定或是放弃一些你不想放弃的事,否则你将无法腾出你所需要的时间和精力。
你是自己生活的主人。
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| Chinese | Pinyin | English |
|---|---|---|
| 我们 | wǒ men | we; us; ourselves; our |
| 都 | dōu | all; both; entirely |
| 不 | bù | no; not so |
| 喜欢 | xǐ huan | to like; to be fond of |
| 坏 | huài | bad / spoiled / broken |
| 品质 | pǐn zhì | character / intrinsic quality (of a person) / quality (of a product or service) |
| 但是 | dàn shì | but; however |
| 有 | yǒu | to have; there is |
| 三 | sān | three / 3 |
| 种 | zhǒng | classifier for types, kinds, sorts |
| 可能 | kě néng | might (happen) / maybe / perhaps |
| 对 | duì | towards; at; for / concerning; regarding |
| 你 | nǐ | you |
| 帮助 | bāng zhù | assistance; aid |
| 第 | dì | (prefix indicating ordinal number) |
| 一 | yī | one / single / a (article) |
| 自私 | zì sī | selfish |
| 认为 | rèn wéi | to believe; to think; to consider; to feel |
| 是 | shì | to be (followed by substantives only) |
| 贪婪 | tān lán | avaricious / greedy / rapacious / insatiable / avid |
| 无情 | wú qíng | pitiless / ruthless / merciless / heartless |
| 的 | de | possessive particle (of; 's) / modifying particle (used after an attribute to modify a noun or to form a nominal expression) |
| 不是 | bù shì | is not |
| 好 | hǎo | good / appropriate; proper |
| 事实 | shì shí | fact |
| 上 | shàng | (noun suffix) on; above |
| 通过 | tōng guò | by means of; through; via |
| 优先 | yōu xiān | to have priority; to take precedence |
| 关注 | guān zhù | to pay attention to; to follow sth closely; to follow (on social media) |
| 自己 | zì jǐ | oneself; (attributive) one's own |
| 事 | shì | matter / thing / item / affair |
| 不仅 | bù jǐn | not just; not limited to / (as a correlative conjunction) not only (..., but also ...) |
| 会 | huì | to be likely to; to be sure to |
| 让 | ràng | to permit / to let sb do sth / to have sb do sth / to make sb (feel sad etc) |
| 变 | biàn | to change / to become different / to transform / to vary |
| 得 | de | structural particle: used after a verb (or adjective as main verb), linking it to following phrase indicating effect, degree, possibility etc |
| 更 | gèng | more / even more / further / still / still more |
| 强大 | qiáng dà | big and strong; formidable; powerful |
| 而且 | ér qiě | (not only ...) but also / moreover / in addition / furthermore |
| 还 | hái | in addition, also, else, even |
| 可以 | kě yǐ | can / may / possible / able to |
| 地 | de | -ly / structural particle: used before a verb or adjective, linking it to preceding modifying adverbial adjunct |
| 别人 | bié rén | other people; others; other person |
| 和 | hé | and; together with |
| 也 | yě | also; too; as well; (not ...) either |
| 并 | bìng | (not) at all |
| 矛盾 | máo dùn | contradictory |
| 二 | èr | two / 2 |
| 懒惰 | lǎn duò | idle / lazy |
| 一些 | yī xiē | some; a few; a little; (following an adjective) slightly ...er |
| 无关紧要 | wú guān jǐn yào | indifferent / insignificant |
| 为 | wèi | because of / for / to |
| 节省 | jié shěng | to save / to use sparingly / to cut down on |
| 很多 | hěn duō | many; a lot of |
| 时间 | shí jiān | time |
| 减少 | jiǎn shǎo | to lessen; to decrease; to reduce; to lower |
| 必要 | bì yào | necessary / essential / indispensable / required |
| 压力 | yā lì | pressure |
| 做 | zuò | to do; to engage in; to hold (a party etc) |
| 完 | wán | to finish / to be over |
| 最 | zuì | (before an adjective or verb) to the highest degree; (the) most ...; -est |
| 多 | duō | many; much; more; a lot of |
| 并非 | bìng fēi | really isn't |
| 选择 | xuǎn zé | choice; option; alternative |
| 重要 | zhòng yào | important; significant; major |
| 才 | cái | then and only then |
| 佳 | jiā | beautiful / fine / good |
| 它 | tā | it |
| 能 | néng | can / to be able to / might possibly |
| 大 | dà | big; large; great / older (than another person) / eldest |
| 限度 | xiàn dù | limitation / limit |
| 提升 | tí shēng | (fig.) to elevate; to raise; to improve |
| 生活 | shēng huó | life / livelihood |
| 要 | yào | will; shall; about to / need to; should / if |
| 既 | jì | both... (and...) |
| 聪明 | cōng míng | intelligent; clever; bright / acute (of sight and hearing) |
| 又 | yòu | both... and... |
| 平衡 | píng héng | balance / equilibrium |
| 尽量 | jǐn liàng | as much as possible |
| 利用 | lì yòng | to exploit / to make use of / to use / to take advantage of / to utilize |
| 优势 | yōu shì | superiority / dominance / advantage |
| 不要 | bù yào | don't!; must not |
| 巨大 | jù dà | huge; immense; enormous; gigantic |
| 努力 | nǔ lì | to make an effort; to try hard; to strive |
| 冷酷 | lěng kù | unfeeling; callous |
| 一点 | yī diǎn | a bit; a little bit / (used in negative expressions) (not) the least bit / (after an adjective, used to form the comparative) a bit more, -er |
| 恰当 | qià dàng | appropriate / suitable |
| 我 | wǒ | I; me; my |
| 非常 | fēi cháng | very; really |
| 有些 | yǒu xiē | some |
| 时候 | shí hou | time / length of time / moment / period |
| 必须 | bì xū | to have to / must / compulsory / necessarily |
| 出 | chū | (used after a verb to indicate an outward direction or a positive result) |
| 来说 | lái shuō | for; from the point of view of; in the case of |
| 困难 | kùn nan | difficult / challenging |
| 决定 | jué dìng | decision |
| 或 | huò | or |
| 放弃 | fàng qì | to renounce; to abandon; to give up |
| 想 | xiǎng | to desire; to want (to) |
| 否则 | fǒu zé | otherwise; if not; or (else) |
| 将 | jiāng | will / shall |
| 无法 | wú fǎ | unable to; incapable of |
| 腾出 | téng chū | to make (some time or space) available (for sb) |
| 所 | suǒ | particle introducing a relative clause or passive |
| 需要 | xū yào | to need; to want; to demand; to require |
| 精力 | jīng lì | energy |
| 主人 | zhǔ rén | master / host / owner |