父母经常会说，别人家的孩子分数多么高，来激励自己的孩子努力学习。
但他们可能没有想到，自己的学业成绩也可能导致孩子承受心理的压力和痛苦。
这种影响在男性身上体现得比较明显。
研究显示，对男性来说，学业成绩比父母差的痛苦程度和离婚差不多。
研究人员把父母和孩子的受教育程度与他们的心理状态进行对比。
牛津大学的研究人员发现，超过父母的受教育程度能减少男性的心理痛苦，但不及父母的受教育程度却会增加心理痛苦。
然而女性好像不会受到学业比父母差的影响。
古古什维利博士说：“我们考虑了很多原因，我们觉得可能是，男性比女性更容易认为失败是由个人的缺点和能力导致的。
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| Chinese | Pinyin | English |
|---|---|---|
| 父母 | fù mǔ | father and mother; parents |
| 经常 | jīng cháng | frequently; constantly; regularly; often |
| 会 | huì | to be likely to; to be sure to |
| 说 | shuō | to speak; to talk; to say |
| 别人 | bié rén | other people; others; other person |
| 家 | jiā | home / family / (polite) my (sister, uncle etc) |
| 的 | de | possessive particle (of; 's) / modifying particle (used after an attribute to modify a noun or to form a nominal expression) |
| 孩子 | hái zi | child |
| 分数 | fēn shù | (exam) grade / mark / score / fraction |
| 多么 | duō me | how (wonderful etc) / what (a great idea etc) / however (difficult it may be etc) / (in interrogative sentences) how (much etc) |
| 高 | gāo | high / tall / above average / loud |
| 来 | lái | (between two verbs) in order to |
| 激励 | jī lì | to encourage / to urge |
| 自己 | zì jǐ | oneself; (attributive) one's own |
| 努力 | nǔ lì | to make an effort; to try hard; to strive |
| 学习 | xué xí | to learn / to study |
| 但 | dàn | but; yet; however; still |
| 他们 | tā men | they; them |
| 可能 | kě néng | might (happen) / maybe / perhaps |
| 没有 | méi yǒu | haven't / hasn't |
| 想 | xiǎng | to think (about) / to think of; to devise / to think (that); to believe (that) |
| 到 | dào | to reach; to arrive / to (a place); until (a time); up to (a point) / (verb complement indicating arriving at a place or reaching a point) |
| 学业 | xué yè | studies / schoolwork |
| 成绩 | chéng jì | achievement / performance records / grades |
| 也 | yě | also; too; as well; (not ...) either |
| 导致 | dǎo zhì | to lead to; to create; to cause; to bring about |
| 承受 | chéng shòu | to bear / to support / to inherit |
| 心理 | xīn lǐ | psychology; mentality |
| 压力 | yā lì | pressure |
| 和 | hé | and; together with |
| 痛苦 | tòng kǔ | pain / suffering |
| 这 | zhè | this; these |
| 种 | zhǒng | classifier for types, kinds, sorts |
| 影响 | yǐng xiǎng | influence / effect |
| 在 | zài | (of sb or sth) to be (located) at |
| 男性 | nán xìng | the male sex / a male |
| 身上 | shēn shang | among |
| 体现 | tǐ xiàn | to embody / to reflect / to incarnate |
| 得 | de | structural particle: used after a verb (or adjective as main verb), linking it to following phrase indicating effect, degree, possibility etc |
| 比较 | bǐ jiào | comparatively / relatively / quite |
| 明显 | míng xiǎn | clear / distinct / obvious |
| 研究 | yán jiū | research / a study |
| 显示 | xiǎn shì | to show / to illustrate / to display / to demonstrate |
| 对 | duì | towards; at; for / concerning; regarding |
| 比 | bǐ | (followed by a noun and adjective) more {adj.} than {noun} / (in some compounds derived from Classical Chinese) |
| 差 | chà | different / wrong; mistaken / not up to standard; inferior |
| 程度 | chéng dù | degree; level; extent |
| 离婚 | lí hūn | to divorce |
| 差不多 | chà bu duō | about the same / good enough / not bad |
| 人员 | rén yuán | staff / crew / personnel |
| 把 | bǎ | (used to put the object before the verb: 把[ba3] + {noun} + {verb}) |
| 受 | shòu | to receive / to accept |
| 教育 | jiào yù | education |
| 与 | yǔ | (formal) with; from (marking the other participant in an interaction, comparison, or contrast) |
| 状态 | zhuàng tài | condition; state; state of affairs |
| 进行 | jìn xíng | (of people) to carry out; to conduct (an investigation or discussion etc) |
| 对比 | duì bǐ | to contrast |
| 牛津大学 | Niú jīn Dà xué | University of Oxford |
| 发现 | fā xiàn | to notice; to become aware of / to discover; to find; to detect |
| 超过 | chāo guò | to surpass / to exceed / to outstrip |
| 能 | néng | can / to be able to / might possibly |
| 减少 | jiǎn shǎo | to lessen; to decrease; to reduce; to lower |
| 不及 | bù jí | not as good as / too late |
| 却 | què | but / yet / however / while / nevertheless / even though |
| 增加 | zēng jiā | to raise; to increase |
| 然而 | rán ér | however; but; yet |
| 女性 | nǚ xìng | woman / the female sex |
| 好像 | hǎo xiàng | to seem like |
| 不 | bù | no; not so |
| 受到 | shòu dào | to receive (praise, an education, punishment etc); to be ...ed (praised, educated, punished etc) |
| 古古什维利 | Gǔ gǔ shí wéi lì | Gugushvili; a surname/transliteration |
| 博士 | bó shì | doctor (as an academic degree) |
| 我们 | wǒ men | we; us; ourselves; our |
| 考虑 | kǎo lǜ | to think over / to consider |
| 了 | le | (completed action marker) / (modal particle indicating change of state, situation now) |
| 很多 | hěn duō | many; a lot of |
| 原因 | yuán yīn | cause / origin / root cause / reason |
| 觉得 | jué de | to think that ...; to feel that ... |
| 是 | shì | to be (followed by substantives only) |
| 更 | gèng | more / even more / further / still / still more |
| 容易 | róng yì | likely; liable to; apt to |
| 认为 | rèn wéi | to believe; to think; to consider; to feel |
| 失败 | shī bài | failure / defeat |
| 由 | yóu | from / because of; due to / by; via; through / (before a noun and a verb) it is for ... to ... |
| 个人 | gè rén | personal |
| 缺点 | quē diǎn | weak point / fault / shortcoming / disadvantage |
| 能力 | néng lì | capability / ability |