爱情没有年龄限制,但是结婚却有最佳年龄。
美国社会学家的研究表明,最佳结婚年龄段是28-32岁,在这之前或者之后都不推荐,因为32岁以后每晚结婚一年,离婚率都会增加5%。
而在28-32岁这个年龄段结婚的人,是离婚率最低的。
这个现象的原因有很多,比如这个年龄的人很容易知道两人是不是因为合适在一起,而不仅是因为荷尔蒙;
他们也逐渐开始有了责任感和人生计划;
经济上也可以满足两个人的生活需要。
而32岁以上的人,很多习惯已经很难改变了,也可能有很多不确定因素会消耗两个人的时间和精力。
当然,婚姻中每对夫妻的情况都不一样,最重要的是懂得沟通,有自己的空间,为彼此创造舒服的环境。
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| Chinese | Pinyin | English |
|---|---|---|
| 爱情 | ài qíng | romance; love (romantic) |
| 没有 | méi yǒu | to not have |
| 年龄 | nián líng | (a person's) age |
| 限制 | xiàn zhì | restriction / limit |
| 但是 | dàn shì | but; however |
| 结婚 | jié hūn | to marry; to get married |
| 却 | què | but / yet / however / while / nevertheless / even though |
| 有 | yǒu | to have; there is |
| 最佳 | zuì jiā | optimum / optimal / peak / best |
| 美国 | Měi guó | United States; USA; US |
| 社会学家 | shè huì xué jiā | sociologist; a person who studies society and social behavior |
| 的 | de | possessive particle (of; 's) / modifying particle (used after an attribute to modify a noun or to form a nominal expression) |
| 研究 | yán jiū | research / a study |
| 表明 | biǎo míng | to make clear / to make known / to state clearly / to indicate |
| 段 | duàn | paragraph / section / segment / stage (of a process) |
| 是 | shì | to be (followed by substantives only) |
| 岁 | suì | classifier for years (of age) |
| 在 | zài | (of sb or sth) to be (located) at |
| 这 | zhè | this; these |
| 之前 | zhī qián | before / prior to |
| 或者 | huò zhě | or |
| 之后 | zhī hòu | after; behind / (at the beginning of a sentence) afterwards; since then |
| 都 | dōu | all; both; entirely |
| 不 | bù | no; not so |
| 推荐 | tuī jiàn | to recommend |
| 因为 | yīn wèi | because; owing to; on account of |
| 以后 | yǐ hòu | after / later / afterwards / following / later on / in the future |
| 每 | měi | each / every |
| 晚 | wǎn | late |
| 一 | yī | one / single / a (article) |
| 年 | nián | year |
| 离婚 | lí hūn | to divorce |
| 率 | lǜ | (bound form) ratio; rate; proportion |
| 会 | huì | to be likely to; to be sure to |
| 增加 | zēng jiā | to raise; to increase |
| 而 | ér | but (not) / yet (not) / (indicates contrast) |
| 这个 | zhè ge | (pronoun) this / (adjective) this |
| 人 | rén | person; people |
| 最 | zuì | (before an adjective or verb) to the highest degree; (the) most ...; -est |
| 低 | dī | low |
| 现象 | xiàn xiàng | phenomenon / appearance |
| 原因 | yuán yīn | cause / origin / root cause / reason |
| 很多 | hěn duō | many; a lot of |
| 比如 | bǐ rú | for example; for instance; such as |
| 很 | hěn | very; quite |
| 容易 | róng yì | easy; straightforward |
| 知道 | zhī dào | to know; to become aware of |
| 两 | liǎng | two / both / some / a few |
| 不是 | bù shì | is not |
| 合适 | hé shì | suitable; fitting; appropriate |
| 一起 | yī qǐ | together; in company (with) |
| 不仅 | bù jǐn | not just; not limited to / (as a correlative conjunction) not only (..., but also ...) |
| 荷尔蒙 | hé ěr méng | (loanword) hormone |
| 他们 | tā men | they; them |
| 也 | yě | also; too; as well; (not ...) either |
| 逐渐 | zhú jiàn | gradually |
| 开始 | kāi shǐ | to begin / to start |
| 了 | le | (completed action marker) / (modal particle indicating change of state, situation now) |
| 责任 | zé rèn | responsibility; duty; liability |
| 感 | gǎn | (suffix) sense of ~ |
| 和 | hé | and; together with |
| 人生 | rén shēng | life (one's time on earth) |
| 计划 | jì huà | plan / project / program |
| 经济 | jīng jì | economy |
| 上 | shàng | (noun suffix) on; above |
| 可以 | kě yǐ | can / may / possible / able to |
| 满足 | mǎn zú | to satisfy / to meet (the needs of) |
| 个 | gè | classifier for people or objects in general |
| 生活 | shēng huó | life / livelihood |
| 需要 | xū yào | needs |
| 以上 | yǐ shàng | that level or higher; that amount or more |
| 习惯 | xí guàn | habit / custom / usual practice |
| 已经 | yǐ jīng | already |
| 难 | nán | difficult (to...) / difficult |
| 改变 | gǎi biàn | to change / to alter / to transform |
| 可能 | kě néng | might (happen) / maybe / perhaps |
| 确定 | què dìng | definite / certain / fixed / OK (on computer dialog box) |
| 因素 | yīn sù | element / factor |
| 消耗 | xiāo hào | to consume; to use up / to deplete; to expend |
| 时间 | shí jiān | time |
| 精力 | jīng lì | energy |
| 当然 | dāng rán | certainly / of course / without doubt |
| 婚姻 | hūn yīn | marriage; matrimony |
| 中 | zhōng | within; among; in |
| 对 | duì | classifier: couple; pair |
| 夫妻 | fū qī | husband and wife; married couple |
| 情况 | qíng kuàng | circumstances; state of affairs; situation |
| 一样 | yī yàng | same / like / equal to / the same as |
| 重要 | zhòng yào | important; significant; major |
| 懂得 | dǒng de | to understand; to know; to comprehend |
| 沟通 | gōu tōng | to join; to connect; to link up / to communicate |
| 自己 | zì jǐ | oneself; (attributive) one's own |
| 空间 | kōng jiān | space; room |
| 为 | wèi | because of / for / to |
| 彼此 | bǐ cǐ | each other; one another |
| 创造 | chuàng zào | to create / to bring about / to produce / to set (a record) |
| 舒服 | shū fu | comfortable / feeling well |
| 环境 | huán jìng | environment / circumstances / surroundings |